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La maternit\u00e9 nous place, presque brutalement, face \u00e0 un miroir implacable. Bien que nous sachions que nos enfants sont des \u00eatres uniques avec leur propre caract\u00e8re, nous nous voyons inconsciemment refl\u00e9t\u00e9es en eux. <\/p>\n\n

Sans nous en rendre compte, nous revivons notre propre enfance \u00e0 travers leurs exp\u00e9riences. Tout ce que nous avons ressenti enfant \u2014 surtout les moments difficiles et les blessures \u00e9motionnelles \u2014 est rest\u00e9 enfoui dans l’inconscient et se r\u00e9veille lorsque nous voyons nos enfants traverser leurs propres \u00e9tapes. <\/p>\n\n

Comment le pass\u00e9 interf\u00e8re-t-il dans le pr\u00e9sent?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n

Une souffrance que nous pensions oubli\u00e9e peut ressurgir avec force et conditionner notre maternit\u00e9. Par exemple: <\/p>\n\n

\u2022 La blessure d’abandon:<\/strong> Si, b\u00e9b\u00e9, on nous a laiss\u00e9 pleurer seule, de longues heures, en nous sentant d\u00e9munie, cette blessure peut se r\u00e9activer face \u00e0 tout besoin d’autonomie de notre enfant (ex: apprendre \u00e0 dormir seul). Cela g\u00e9n\u00e8re une intol\u00e9rance \u00e9motionnelle qui nous emp\u00eache de lui donner l’espace et le soutien dont il a r\u00e9ellement besoin pour grandir. <\/p>\n\n

\u2022 La blessure de rejet:<\/strong> Si nous avons v\u00e9cu un rejet familial durant l’enfance, nous pouvons projeter cette peur lorsque notre enfant commence \u00e0 socialiser, interf\u00e9rant avec sa capacit\u00e9 naturelle \u00e0 cr\u00e9er des liens.<\/p>\n\n

\u2022 La blessure de d\u00e9valorisation:<\/strong> Si nous avons grandi avec le sentiment de ne pas \u00eatre \u00e0 la hauteur, nous pouvons projeter cette m\u00eame peur en doutant des capacit\u00e9s de nos enfants. Cette projection inconsciente prend le pas sur nos efforts pour les encourager et reconna\u00eetre leurs r\u00e9ussites, se transformant en une pression invisible qu’ils per\u00e7oivent. <\/p>\n\n

Le voile qui nous emp\u00eache de voir clair<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n

Le grand risque est que, lorsque cette ancienne douleur fait surface, nous cessons de voir la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 pr\u00e9sente. La souffrance inconsciente nous emp\u00eache de voir que notre enfant est une autre personne, avec ses propres ressources et capacit\u00e9s pour faire face \u00e0 la vie. <\/p>\n\n

Au lieu de r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 ce que notre enfant vit et a r\u00e9ellement besoin, nous r\u00e9agissons \u00e0 partir de notre propre enfant bless\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n

Gu\u00e9rir ces blessures de l’enfance est fondamental. Non seulement pour aborder notre vie avec plus de paix, mais pour nettoyer notre regard envers nos enfants, en cessant de projeter notre pass\u00e9 sur leur avenir et en les guidant depuis la libert\u00e9 et l’amour conscient. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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